Bush on Saturday consoled families of local soldiers lost in Iraq

The Repository (Canton, Ohio) ^ | Tuesday, August 3, 2004 | ED BALINT Repository staff writer

[ResistorSister]

CANTON -- Julie Barkey waited for a sign from her late son, Michael Barkey, a soldier who died in Iraq last month.

Last week, she had a conversation with Michael as if he were still alive.

“I said, ‘Mikey, I need a sign from you. I just want a sign that you’re OK in heaven.’ ”

“If I could just shake the president’s hand,” Barkey recalled saying, “I would take that as a sign.”

Barkey got that sign.

After his address at the Memorial Civic Center on Saturday, President George W. Bush met privately with Barkey and two other local families who lost sons to the war.

“That meant to me that heaven is even better than we think it is,” Barkey said. “I think that was kind of his sign to me he is OK. And he just didn’t get me a handshake, but a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and so much more than I asked for.”

She was touched by the president’s gesture. Her son died in a truck accident in Ar Ramadi, about 60 miles west of Baghdad.

“He had tears in his eyes,” Barkey said of the president. “He seemed very down-to-earth, very compassionate, very warm, everything I thought he would be. I’ve had a lot of respect for him over the years, and his courage to stand for the unborn and for the downtrodden and help the people of Iraq.”

“He said our sons did not die in vain and that he appreciated their sacrifice,” she said.

Michael Barkey’s brother, Tony, and sister, Therese, also met the president.

Bush also spoke with Jerry and Julie Ramey, whose son, Richard, died in February when he tried to defuse a roadside bomb south of Baghdad, and with Steve and Peggy Buryj, whose son, Jesse, died in May while serving in Iraq. Ramey’s daughter, Sarah, also met the president.

The Rameys could not be reached for comment Monday.

Hal Barkey, Michael’s father, expressed his support for the war effort.

“He expressed his sympathy to us,” he said. “I think it was very heartfelt. I saw tears in his eyes. We talked about the war, and we both believe it is a just war. We’d like to let these people have the opportunity to have a democracy and see how it works, and hopefully change things in the Middle East.”

The visit with the president lasted about 15 to 20 minutes.

“He could have had some reporters there, but he didn’t,” Hal Barkey said. “It was a private affair, and no one else was allowed in there. I think that says a lot about him and the man he is.

“I think he’s genuine. I think he sticks to what he believes, and I see some real good there.”

Peggy Buryj said she was honored to meet the president.

“I was very nervous,” she said. “I thought, ‘What am I going to do, throw up on his shoes or something?’ He just seemed very real to me, very sincere. I cried on his shoulder, and he cried on mine.”

She also asked President Bush for more information about her son’s death in Iraq. Buryj said she has received conflicting information.

“He said, ‘Sometimes it just takes a call from a president,’ ” Buryj said. “He had one of his assistants come over and get all the information.”

Buryj, a registered Democrat, said she will vote for President Bush in the November election. She also voted for him in 2000.

“People think I should dislike him because of the war,” she said. “My son was a soldier, and he wanted to be a police officer. It would be like me getting mad at the chief of police for sending him into a dangerous situation.”

Each family received a presidential medallion. One side reads, “Seal of the President of the United States.” The other side reads, “George W. Bush Commander-in-Chief,” encircling an image of the White House.

Buryj said her son loved to collect coins from the Pentagon — where he once worked — and the military.

“Army guys want those coins,” Buryj said, laughing. “They’ll do anything to get those coins.”

President Bush dug into his pocket and pulled three out.

“I said out loud to my son, ‘Jesse, I got a bigger coin than you.’ ”

You can reach Repository writer Ed Balint at (330) 580-8315 or e-mail:

ed.balint@cantonrep.com

[ResistorSister]

Heartwarming story; God Bless, President Bush!

[MP5]

What a great man our President is. Thanks for the Post!

[tbpiper]

Very key point:

“He could have had some reporters there, but he didn’t,” Hal Barkey said. “It was a private affair, and no one else was allowed in there. I think that says a lot about him and the man he is.

[Miss Marple]

Thank you for posting this article, ResistorSister!

I am pinging a few folks who will appreciate this story.

[Guenevere]

#4..Thanks MM...
..Pinged & appreciated!
He's a good man...
..notice the parent who points out this is not a photo-op!

President Bush is real.

[GailA]

If hanoi john had met with any of our greiving families it would have been with press in tow. In fact he has been bothered to visit Walter Reed or any other military hospital, because if he had there would have been photos. BUT he really cares about them.

[Maigrey]

Hankie PING

[Neets]

GMTA...I just posted a link to this on ATRW!!!!!!!!!

[PigRigger]

"What a great man our President is..."

He is a honest man who is not ignorant to what he is asking of those in our military.

We truly have reached a moment of truth in our country. Do we continue to move forward taking the fight to our enemies or do we cower and run for cover and wait for the next attack.

I know what GW will do; if history is a guide, we know what Kerry will do.

Unfortunately many Americans are willing to turn over control of this country to a charlatan.

If this should comes to pass, many Americans will pay the ultimate price for such naivety.

[ResistorSister]

Earlier, I was trying to tell one of my sons about the story I posted; however, I couldn't finish telling him the story because each time I started to talk about how the mother wanted a sign from her son...I started to weep. He had to read it for himself.

The parents that President Bush spoke with must have been overwhelmed with thankfulness to the President.

[ez]

“He could have had some reporters there, but he didn’t,” Hal Barkey said. “It was a private affair, and no one else was allowed in there. I think that says a lot about him and the man he is.

[ResistorSister]

Yes! That is a key point. The meeting was for the parents, not for the press nor was it campaign hype.

[Northern Yankee]

Thanks Nita!

PING!

[ResistorSister]

I hope everyone on FR takes the time to read this story. Thanks.

[Reader of news]

God bless our troops!

God bless President Bush!

God bless America!

[Puppage]

What a great man our President is

HERE, HERE!!

[ResistorSister]

Photo courtesy of Barkey family
COMFORT FOR HER LOSS. Julie Barkey, whose son,
Michael, died last month in Iraq, is embraced by
President Bush after his address at the Memorial
Civic Center on Saturday. Bush met privately with
the Barkeys and two other local families who lost
sons to the war. Looking on are Barkey’s son, Tony,
her husband, Hal, and their daughter, Therese.

[MJY1288]

Thanks for the ping, I love the fact that President Bush doesn't allow camera's in when he consoles these families

What makes a great man is not what he does when everyone is looking, it's what he does when only God is

God Bless President Bush

[Maine For Bush]

Hopefully this will put a plug in all of the DUmmies who keep harping about the President not attending any funerals or meeting with any family members.

And, is it just me or is the Prez looking a little paunchy in that pic?

[Carolinamom]

Thank you for posting this article, RS. It is so good to read about the real President Bush and his unheralded humanity. It was intirely appropriate, as he knows and practices, that no photographers be present. The families know him for the good man that he is.

Thanks for this ping, MM. I don't recall any instance of President Bush's opponent or the VP candidate doing anything of this sort.

[baseballmom]

He's a good and decent man. Thanks for the post.

[DrDeb]

"And, is it just me or is the Prez looking a little paunchy in that pic?"


Remember, the President always wears a kevlar vest when he speaks in public!!!


God Bless our Troops!
God Bless President George W Bush

[ride the whirlwind]

Buryj, a registered Democrat, said she will vote for President Bush in the November election. She also voted for him in 2000.

“People think I should dislike him because of the war,” she said. “My son was a soldier, and he wanted to be a police officer. It would be like me getting mad at the chief of police for sending him into a dangerous situation.”

Great analogy. So glad she and the other families had this special time with GWB.

[WOSG]

ping for great story - LIBERATING IRAQ, BUSH

[VOA]

Her son died in a truck accident in Ar Ramadi

What a shame. An accquaintance also lost his son (a translator) in a
traffic accident in Iraq. He'd volunteered to go, being most of the other
translators in his unit were married or had family to look after stateside.


“He had tears in his eyes,” Barkey said of the president.
Reminds me of a passage from Churchill's memoirs. He was touring some of the
civilian bombing wreckage and was thronged by well-wishing folks, including
a young lady who handed him a box of cigars.
I guess Churchill wasn't really self-conscious of his emotions for he said he
suddenly heard a lady in the crowd say
"Look, 'ee really cares...he's crying".
And at that moment he realized his emotions had gotten the better of him.

[Ragtime Cowgirl]

Thanks for the post and the pings!

Bless our CinC and Soldiers!

  

[ResistorSister]

...Churchill..."Look, 'ee really cares...he's crying"... he realized his emotions had gotten the better of him.

President Bush's emotions are the "better of him." He understands how important a smile, a hug, a kiss, and words of encouragement are to families who have lost loved ones to the war.

[ResistorSister]

This story is a great example of the sincere compassion of President Bush. Thanks for the tissues, I can't talk about this story without tears.

[blackie]

GWB Is The Man!

[armymarinemom]

I lost it when this story started talking about coins.

[ResistorSister]

Couldn't go see President Bush on Saturday, had to work. Here is a story, a behind the scenes story about something that happened at the rally. You will enjoy reading this story.

[windchime]

Bump!

[TruthNtegrity]

Dose Ping to a great story that you won't see in the press, because there weren't any there - when Pres. Bush met with families who had lost a soldier in Iraq.

Truthy

[Peach]

Thanks for the ping. I know these days must be the hardest for the president.

[nana4bush]

Thanks for this ping. I am emailing this to everyone I know. This visit meant so much to this family & the article is very touching.

[RightWingMama]

Thanks for the ping. What a wonderful story.

[Americanwolf]

great post, and i just sent a thank you to the articles author.

[Kaslin]

Thanks for this ping, MM. I don't recall any instance of President Bush's opponent or the VP candidate doing anything of this sort.

What can anyone expect from Kerry who doesn't even find it necessary to visit the wounded at Walter Reed. This man wants to be cic of our great military? No way

[Bigg Red]

“He could have had some reporters there, but he didn’t,” Hal Barkey said. “It was a private affair, and no one else was allowed in there. I think that says a lot about him and the man he is.

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No, he would not have reporters there because what he did is from the heart and not a photo op. One more shining example of the difference between the real man that we have at the helm and the sham that infested the WH for 8 years before our deliverance.

[Kate of Spice Island]

Thank you,Truthy!

[Bigg Red]

Thanks for the flag, friend.
Bush is truly a gift from above for this nation.

[GeorgiaYankee]

Dubya is the real deal!

[Kitty Mittens]

Thank you, dear Truthy, for the ping!

I cried on his shoulder, and he cried on mine.

That sentence encapsulated what our beloved President is really all about; spreading the Love and the Comfort of our Blessed Savior to others. God bless him!

Thank You, O God our Merciful Master, for granting this good man to be our President! We praise You, our Great King, for Your Lovingkindness, Your Compassion for us, and for Your GRACE! Amen!

[theophilusscribe]

Thanks for the ping.

"The real great man is the man who makes every man feel great."
—G.K. Chesterton

[firewalk]

Thanks for the ping

[Alamo-Girl]

Bump!

[ntnychik]

PING!

[TruthNtegrity]

Amen and AMEN

[ResistorSister]

Good Story Bump

[lawgirl]

Thanks for the ping- I love President Bush. :)