Regarding the second-hand smoke issue...my grandparents each smoked 3 packs of menthol cigarettes a day. Neither my mother, nor my uncle, nor any of the grandchildren have suffered any long term health problems due to their smoking. I spent a lot of time with my grandparents and it never bothered me. I never said "I don't want to go to Nana and Grandpa's because they smoke."
However, the mother in this case shouldn't have agreed to the demand by her ex-husband if she didn't intend to comply.
Regarding the second-hand smoke issue...my grandparents each smoked 3 packs of menthol cigarettes a day. Neither my mother, nor my uncle, nor any of the grandchildren have suffered any long term health problems due to their smoking. I spent a lot of time with my grandparents and it never bothered me. I never said "I don't want to go to Nana and Grandpa's because they smoke."
Funny you mentioned that. Because I smoke I have never been able to see my granddaughters. My daughterinlaw said I couldn't smoke IN MY OWN HOUSE. I would never smoke in the same room my granddaughters are in, but I will smoke in my own house. My son pays the mortgage on his house and she makes him go outside and smoke. Btw, the witch that has kept my granddaughters from me smokes.