no kidding...
I divorced my wife when she became dangerous fo rthe children.
the court appointed doctor recommended I have SOLE custody and she not be allowed overnight visitation AND if I had to put them in day care she was not to be considered an option.
There were 24 witnesses against her- NONE against me. She had her other children taken away from her by Child protective services. DURING the trial, one of my childre was hospitalized for severe neglect.
She had me arrested for assault and I was able to prove she lied and that I was not even home at the time, so I was awarded temporary custody of my children. For over 2 years they lived with me.
End result: New York State supreme court judge John o'donnell took them away from me and returned them to the diagnosed psychopath.
Man that sounds ruff!
I am currently going through a custody battle and have right now 50% custody. The judge did rule in my favor as far as school is concerned because my X kept moving the kid's from school to school so the judge(female)granted me the sole authority to place our children in school. They are now in school in my home county and when thier Mom has them she has to drive them over here everyday. I go to court Monday to hopefully get sole custody at least on a temp basis.
I have fought for a year and the justice system here in KY is slow but has been fairly fair so far.
I hope to have full sole custody by Christmas.
I think it is way past time to start asking why men who are in a position to make things better are so quick to sell out instead, even under circumstances like this. We can't keep blaming feminism and "the system" for the decisions men make.