I agree with you that an abortion is the destruction of innocent human life. It is the 'innocent' part that makes comparisons to the death penalty out of place.
But I do think that they should be allowed if the mother's health is truly in danger if she carries the baby to term and gives birth to it.
Practically speaking, I think that the best that could happen on a policy level is for Roe to be overturned and for the matter to return to the states. If that happens you would have a polygot of laws. Some states in the Northeast would probably only restrict late-term abortions, but the restrictions would likely be so weak so as to have a defacto policy of abortion on demand. Some states would probably be very restrictive and allow for abortions only in those threat-to-the-mother cases, while othres would probably extend exceptions to include rape, incest, etc.
It wouldn't be perfect, but at least policy wouldn't result from judicial fiat.
And Mach9: you are right about lack of respect for States' rights. The Tenth Amendment might as well not even exist considering how it is ignored.
She died 2 months after the child would have been born. Her children are motherless anyway.
How about if she had liver cancer, and was going to die, if she didn't get a transplant? What if her 3 year old was a perfect match? Should the three year old be killed and the liver given to the mother, so that the other children would not live without a mother? What about sacrificing a three year old to save the mother's life? Are you for that? If not, why not? To me, it is the same thing. I would GIVE my life to save my children, no matter how old they are!