My suggestion would be to let her talk to a pro-Bush woman.
It's hard to talk to a spouse about politics or teach them how to drive. Both require an independent, outside source.
I'm a pro-Bush woman....a mother of 3, grandmother of 2, wife of 40 years and very conservative. In my opinion...outsourcing, no matter that it really hit home...and questionable over-spending (medicare)...and a series of things could make you think that Bush or Kerry is the same choice. What it all really comes down to is 'SECURITY'. If we don't have security nothing else matters. Are you willing to entrust our nation and our security to someone who wishes to wage a "more sensitive" war on terror? Are we willing to go back to the 8 yrs of Klinton foreign policy which just said "close your eyes and you won't have to think about it!" As a result of that kind of thinking...and not caring...9/11 happened. Do you want a man who has lied about his past military record...(we don't know what's true because he won't sign the 180 to release his records). Do you want to elect a 'tax and spend' Massachusettes liberal who makes Ted Kennedy look like a conservative? Do you want a man in the White House who has had nothing BUT the presidency on his mind for the last 30 years...instead of thinking about the security of the nation? Check his voting record. He has voted against most of the very military equipment which we are using today to try and defeat the terrorists who want us all DEAD? Kerry's morality is also extremely questionable...just look at how he views his religion. He has literally dumped it in favor of VOTES which were expedient at the time for his own PERSONAL political gain. Read about what HIS church thinks of him. His integrity is in question...his morality leaves a lot to be desired and as far as the nation is concerned....HE comes first...he and the office he has aspired to for all these many years. I wish I could be more precise...but as I said in the beginning....I'm just a mother, a grandmother and a wife. BUT...I fear for my family (and this wonderful nation) should Kerry get elected. No matter what your choice, I wish you peace. God Bless you and your family and I will keep you and yours in my prayers.