very nicely said...
George Bush was once asked about his visits to families and why we dont know about them...he replied because you shouldnt know about them...they are private...the families deserve that.
So for him its not about photos ops or exploiting tragedy, hes a man that understands that and goes quietly about it.
You have a five year old who can understand a reasoned argument on that level? Congratulations to you for a job well done!