No, but I have gay friends who have confided in me that it isn't a choice. And that all things being equal, they would rather not be gay.
Being 'out' is so 'in' right now...
"No, but I have gay friends who have confided in me that it isn't a choice. And that all things being equal, they would rather not be gay."
I can't imagine anyone choosing to be gay either, but I think the science isn't definitive yet. There was one small study, though, that found marked differences in a certain part of the hypothalmus btwn. straight men and gay men. I think it was smaller in gay men, but I don't know that they were able to conclude that it was a congenital finding vs. a developmental issue. And I can't recall whether the study included women.