I doubt she ever knew.
I think she went to Broad Ripple, a public high school. I tried to google to check and found this. I can't access the articles because I'm not a subscriber.
Legend has it that Hilbert met his sixth wife, Tomisue, when she popped topless
out of a cake at his stepson's bachelor party. Hilbert ...
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... Steve Hilbert, the founder, is on his sixth marriage, this one to Tomisue,
a former exotic dancer, who he told me he adores. Gary ...
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