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Sex visits for aged homes
News Interactive (Australia) ^ | November 26, 2004 | Liam Houlihan

Posted on 11/25/2004 7:09:07 PM PST by MississippiMasterpiece

Some Victorian nursing homes have become "grey light zones" with prostitutes visiting elderly clients for sex.

Aged care and sex industry figures said it was a common practice in public and private nursing homes to sneak "escorts" in.

Some homes set aside special sex rooms.

Anna Priamo, a nursing supervisor at an inner-city nursing home, said frisky patients who harassed nurses were referred to a doctor who might arrange for a prostitute to visit them.

"It's not something we put in our brochure," Ms Priamo said.

"(The residents) might ask for it or if they make smarmy comments to nurses it would be mentioned to the doctor and the doctor would ask them (if they wanted an escort to be arranged).

"Most homes would do it if asked. It is part of our job to make sure people are socially and sexually and emotionally happy and healthy," she said.

The Victorian Association of Health and Extended Care, which represents 70 per cent of the state's aged care providers, has formed a taskforce to examine the issue.

"As the population ages, this issue of sexuality in residential aged care is coming to the surface," chief executive Mary Barry said. "Residents have rights. But it is a difficult, sensitive and touchy area."

Krystel, a Melbourne prostitute for 18 years, said she had been hired to visit nursing homes to see people with Alzheimer's and intellectual disabilities.

"It's usually done very privately," she said.

"I mean, you don't go in with fishnet stockings and that sort of thing. You see clients during the day so it looks more discreet. You go to the person whose name you've been allocated by the head charge nurse."

Despite risking potential six-year jail terms under the Prostitution Control Act for providing prostitution services without a licence, some nursing home managers routinely give the practice the green light.

Ms Priamo, who has seen prostitutes brought in for elderly residents about five times, said there was a good reason relatives and other residents were kept in the dark about the practice.

"What children would like to know their parents are using a prostitute?" she asked.

"So, who would want to put their parents in a nursing home that does that?" she said.

Gabby Skelsey, who works for Resourcing Health and Education in the Sex Industry, said the sex worker organisation received about six inquiries a month from nursing homes wanting to order a prostitute.

"Carers will ring us and we will refer them on," Ms Skelsey said.

Krystel said her nursing home clients had usually lost a partner and were not visited by family.

She said they would hire her only a couple of times a year because they couldn't afford more.


TOPICS: Australia/New Zealand; Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: australia; elderly; sexbusiness; victoria
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What's the minimum age for these homes? I'm 44. Is that too young?
1 posted on 11/25/2004 7:09:08 PM PST by MississippiMasterpiece
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To: MississippiMasterpiece

When you think if the diseases prostitutes have, thanks but no thanks. Ugh.


2 posted on 11/25/2004 7:12:00 PM PST by Old Phone Man
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To: MississippiMasterpiece

As soon as anyone posts pictures on this thread...
that "report abuse" button is getting squashed!!!


3 posted on 11/25/2004 7:12:53 PM PST by VOA
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"I'm 44. Is that too young?"
By the time you qualify, your interest may be seriously diminished...


4 posted on 11/25/2004 7:13:03 PM PST by GSlob
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To: MississippiMasterpiece

Prostitution meets gold diggers. Some how those to seem to go naturally together.


5 posted on 11/25/2004 7:15:49 PM PST by Paul C. Jesup
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To: MississippiMasterpiece

This comes from the state of Victoria, which is famous in Australia for its feel-good leftism, some old-fashioned sordidity (largely gone by now), and ruthless mafias. In fact, it's a bit like Australia's Connectitcut, Rhode Island or Massachusetts.

I'm suspecting Melbourne's famously known Italian mafia is behind this.


6 posted on 11/25/2004 7:16:03 PM PST by NZerFromHK (Disclaimer: this poster is a naturalized NZer born in Hong Kong, not a expat Kiwi in HK)
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To: MississippiMasterpiece

I'm guessing that this is a bit more popular than Bingo night or scrabble tournaments.


7 posted on 11/25/2004 7:16:07 PM PST by TADSLOS (Right Wing Infidel since 1954)
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To: MississippiMasterpiece
I instantly thought of Zero Mostel and Estelle Winwood in The Producers
8 posted on 11/25/2004 7:17:12 PM PST by RightWingAtheist (Marxism-the creationism of the left)
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To: TADSLOS

Women live longer than men, and thus nursing home populations are heavily weighted female. I have heard from a lady that works at a nursing home, the men have little trouble finding intimate companionship aka bumpin uglies.


9 posted on 11/25/2004 7:20:56 PM PST by LesbianThespianGymnasticMidget (Booo Hooo Hooo ... The new liberal battle cry!)
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To: MississippiMasterpiece

Is this covered by Medicare and, if so, what is the code?


10 posted on 11/25/2004 7:22:08 PM PST by panzer_grey
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To: MississippiMasterpiece
Given that you don't need to include the cost of a motel room, it's got to be cost effective.

Wonder what were the differences between Bill Clinton's healthcare bill and Hillary Clinton's healthcare bill with regard to such "coverage"?

Take two hookers and call me in the morning...

11 posted on 11/25/2004 7:22:24 PM PST by Doctor Raoul (KERRY IS A POODLE: #1 He's French, #2 He's A Rich Woman's Pet, #3 He Won't Protect You)
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"So, who would want to put their parents in a nursing home that does that?" she said.

Now hear this children, if you dont want to lose your inheritance. you'll put me away there.

12 posted on 11/25/2004 7:22:27 PM PST by lowbridge
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To: panzer_grey
Is this covered by Medicare and, if so, what is the code?

4Q

13 posted on 11/25/2004 7:22:58 PM PST by Doctor Raoul (KERRY IS A POODLE: #1 He's French, #2 He's A Rich Woman's Pet, #3 He Won't Protect You)
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To: MississippiMasterpiece
Clinton Presidential Library and Nursing Home
14 posted on 11/25/2004 7:23:52 PM PST by Doctor Raoul (KERRY IS A POODLE: #1 He's French, #2 He's A Rich Woman's Pet, #3 He Won't Protect You)
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To: panzer_grey

69


15 posted on 11/25/2004 7:25:14 PM PST by al baby (she stuned my little beeber)
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To: Doctor Raoul

ROTFL! Perfect response!


16 posted on 11/25/2004 7:26:54 PM PST by ladyinred (Congratulations President Bush! Four more years!)
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To: Doctor Raoul

ROTFL !!!!!!!!!


17 posted on 11/25/2004 7:27:07 PM PST by jigsaw (God Bless Our Troops.)
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To: VOA
As soon as anyone posts pictures on this thread... that "report abuse" button is getting squashed!!!

Mr. VOA, your 10:00 "date" will see you now.


18 posted on 11/25/2004 7:30:29 PM PST by MaryFromMichigan (We childproofed our home, but they are still getting in)
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To: NZerFromHK; naturalman1975; Bandaneira; Byron_the_Aussie; Piefloater; Aussie Dasher; Dundee; ...

Ping!


19 posted on 11/25/2004 7:31:00 PM PST by NZerFromHK (Disclaimer: this poster is a naturalized NZer born in Hong Kong, not a expat Kiwi in HK)
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To: Old Phone Man
When you think if the diseases prostitutes have

Prostitutes - the real pros - actually have lower rates of STDs than the general population.
20 posted on 11/25/2004 7:31:59 PM PST by Connie Cardullo
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