My thoughts exactly! DON'T MARRY THEM. It is not a racist attitude at all. The cult of islam is so restrictive and dangerous for women, you are asking for trouble if you marry a muslim. I never thought I would tell my daughter "don't bring home a ___" but that is EXACTLY what I am saying. With apologies to no one.
Stories like these remind me of the book, "Not Without My Daughter," later made into a movie with Sally Field. It should be required reading for any non-Muslim woman thinking about marrying a Muslim.