But alas, as with so many of the mainline denominations, the Episcopal church has left its first love. It has a form of godliness, but denies the power therein. It is, as you observed - a collection of dead-men-walking.
It's an important part of the American tradition, and a decent part in many ways, but I see no reason to follow a tradition that has lost all of its substance.
I began my life in the Episcopal church, was married in a Presbyterian church, attended Baptist churches in my early married life and now belong to a small but stable Assemblies of God Church. The "speaking in tongues" issue was and has been a big struggle for me, but what I really appreciate is that my pastor presents the pure and unvarnished gospel *every* *single* *service*, including the Christmas Eve service this past Friday. I don't mind that he regularly prays for our troops in Iraq, and a particular favorite of mine is that God would grant our troops "supernatural power to find and defeat the enemy".