Being a comic book artist and in that loop for nearly twenty years, I am not unfamiliar with Nina Paley. She is also involved with the Voluntary Human Extinction movement, which explains a LOT. She's always been a drama (or trauma) queen.
It sounds like she is not exactly a role model for that movement, if we're still reading her whining. Leaders are the ones who go out in front, and show the others how to do it.