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Married, without children: Finding fulfillment with no kids
Rocky Mountain News ^ | 1/3/05 | Mark Wolf

Posted on 01/03/2005 8:31:56 AM PST by qam1

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1 posted on 01/03/2005 8:31:58 AM PST by qam1
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2 posted on 01/03/2005 8:34:03 AM PST by qam1 (Anyone who was born in New Jersey should not be allowed to drive at night or on hills.)
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There is no cultural celebratory template for women who decide not to have children.

*rolling eyes* Now these people think they should be celebrated for doing NOTHING? No wonder they didn't have kids. They're too damned self-centered!

3 posted on 01/03/2005 8:36:37 AM PST by Prime Choice (The DNC! Where boys and girls look the same! That's a little strange isn't it?)
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There is no cultural celebratory template for women who decide not to have children.

Well, there's no party for those who decide not to buy a house, either.

4 posted on 01/03/2005 8:37:12 AM PST by Izzy Dunne (Hello, I'm a TAGLINE virus. Please help me spread by copying me into YOUR tag line.)
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It doesn't occur to anybody to celebrate a child-free woman in that way."


SELFISH!


5 posted on 01/03/2005 8:38:30 AM PST by Ellesu
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6 posted on 01/03/2005 8:39:14 AM PST by satchmodog9 (Murder and weather are our only news)
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Some people should not have children. My parents definitely shouldn't have, although I am glad to be alive.


7 posted on 01/03/2005 8:39:36 AM PST by econ_grad
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Every time I read about couples like this I remember the little old ladies in the nursing homes I have visited who never had any children and have to rely on that lone nephew who lives 1,500 miles away for a family connection.


8 posted on 01/03/2005 8:39:44 AM PST by Slyfox
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Well, if you have priorities in life that would seriously conflict with having children, I would have to say that it's probably best to not have them. However, I think they are missing out on a pretty awesome experience. It's not nearly as disruptive as they think it is...unless you are a complete party animal. :)


9 posted on 01/03/2005 8:39:44 AM PST by exnavychick (Just my two cents, as usual.)
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I'd rather see people make this decision then have children and let a nanny raise them. I know a couple who are business professional first and parents somewhere way down the list. They have a nanny that feeds, changes, bathes entertains, puts to bed and loves their 11-month old daughter, eben when they are there. They want a $1.5 million dollar house, so they keep working and have a nanny. Nice perspective.


10 posted on 01/03/2005 8:40:11 AM PST by X-Servative
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I am thankful these folks don't have children and not just because they vote liberal. Self centered parents are not good for society.


11 posted on 01/03/2005 8:40:26 AM PST by Raycpa (Alias, VRWC_minion,)
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My best friend had a baby. Now she bought a house with her husband. We're not the friends we used to be at all.


12 posted on 01/03/2005 8:40:33 AM PST by cyborg (http://mentalmumblings.blogspot.com/)
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Well, true. But there are lots of peep I know that had children as a very self-centered decision in their lives about them....and not about the children, unfortunately.


13 posted on 01/03/2005 8:40:57 AM PST by sam_paine (X .................................)
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To: Prime Choice

I wouldn't want to join a group specifically for people who choose not to have children. I've met women like that and they're big diesel feminists. No thanks.


14 posted on 01/03/2005 8:41:26 AM PST by cyborg (http://mentalmumblings.blogspot.com/)
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To those who are calling childless couple selfish, stop and think---isn't it more selfish to have children that you don't want? I think that's even more common and the children suffer. They can tell always when they're not wanted. It's called neglect.


15 posted on 01/03/2005 8:42:05 AM PST by Minuteman23
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So do they want to be able to invest some of their Social Security into an account that pays a rate of return or do they want my daughter to pay for them?


16 posted on 01/03/2005 8:42:14 AM PST by massgopguy (massgopguy)
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May they find contentment and fulfillment.


17 posted on 01/03/2005 8:42:36 AM PST by GSlob
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I can understand why some people choose to not have children. What I cannot understand is why they would choose to miss out on the most joyous part of their lives, when the grandchildren come along and make up for all the sacrifices earlier in life. I have never experienced so much joy in my life as I have with my granddaughter, and the no doubt the next one, due to arrive this week.

I love the phrase "If I had known grandchildren were so much fun, I would have had them first!"

18 posted on 01/03/2005 8:42:44 AM PST by TommyDale
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"We started feeling sort of socially isolated," said Andrea Wenker, 33, of Colorado Springs. "Our friends started having babies ... "They're talking about childbirth and diapers. It's important to their lives, but you start feeling, 'I'm still here, I'm still a person.' "

"Whether or not I want to have kids is not the only consideration," said Wenker. "I believe there's a problem with population, serious issues with the environment, and I believe I have to be part of the solution."

Honey, you're a whiny liberal tweedle, and I'm delighted you've decided not to reproduce. Please consider not voting, either!

19 posted on 01/03/2005 8:42:46 AM PST by Tax-chick (To turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just.)
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"I believe there's a problem with population, serious issues with the environment, and I believe I have to be part of the solution."

What we have here is a liberal who won't be making more liberals. Sounds like a win-win situation.

20 posted on 01/03/2005 8:43:05 AM PST by NeoCaveman (I care, just not very much.)
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