Having attended churches of multiple denominations and tent meeting the divorce rate of teh "Ungodly" was a favorite topic of preachers and evangelists and was given as a proof that God was with the church and in the lives of belivers and that bother were morally supperior to the world.
Recently I was reading something from ine of the apostollic fathers -- The people taht carried the baton after the apostles died and a hundred or more years before the Roman catholic Church came into being.
The writer made a point that Christ did not chose the Apostles because they were righteous men but because they were sinners. He then quoted some verses to back supposition -- I was stunned this theme is to intregally woven in the Gospels that it has become hidden. Jesus came not to save the righteous but sinners to which paul said I AM chief not was.
And because Christ deals with sinners even the divorced whether they be church divorced or are from a broken marriage instead of their being assigned to the blackest hell as I used to hear preached, the bible says they can come to Jesus and find Him dispensing salvation and grace.
Christ came to save sinners.
Amen to all you wrote.