I understand your frustration with this situation!! I live in Colorado, and can't do much...I pray...alot!!
Divorce is considered one of the worst sins in the Catholic faith. As long as he stays married to her, he is on the "Good boy" roster for the church. But, to be able to move on with his fiance...Terri has to die.
So wait, she's "Catholic" enough to insist on a Catholic marraige, but not "Catholic" enough to not shack up and have two kids with a married man?
Riiiiggghttt.