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The Costs And Rewards Of Raising Children Today
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Posted on 01/08/2005 11:04:14 AM PST by ConservativeStLouisGuy
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I heard this article mentioned on Paul Harvey's 12 pm (ET) radio show today -- and did a web search (after unsuccessfully searching for it on Free Republic) to find the article in full. Please pardon me if this HAS already been posted before. If it hasn't -- ENJOY! If it has, it's message bears repeating again (and again, and again)....
Also -- I TRIED to post this article to the "General Interest" topics, but it kept reverting to the "News/Activism" topic...
Here is the source of the article:
http://www.angelfire.com/ga3/sweetgeorgiapeach1/cost.html
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
There is a short four line verse which I'll take the liberty to translate verbatim [please take me at my word that it IS a verse in the original language]:
What are the children? -Worries, running noses,
Scarlet fever, whooping cough, cries,
Sleepless nights and days of worry -
In short, only trouble...
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posted on
01/08/2005 11:13:16 AM PST
by
GSlob
To: GSlob
You sure your name isn't Mr. Burns? :-)
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posted on
01/08/2005 11:16:03 AM PST
by
ConservativeStLouisGuy
(11th FReeper Commandment: Thou Shalt Not Unnecessarily Excerpt)
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
"You sure your name isn't Mr. Burns? :-)"
Absolutely. I just translated a short Zinoviev's four-liner.
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posted on
01/08/2005 11:28:28 AM PST
by
GSlob
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
Must be talking about young children, when they become teenagers , you start questioning whether if any expense is worth it, when they are disrespectful, rebellious and arguementative.
I have just figured out why parents have heart attacks at this age. It because they have teenagers the specialize in enraging their parents.
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posted on
01/08/2005 12:17:46 PM PST
by
Rhiannon
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
You forgot:
An eager retriever of launched model rockets
A good excuse to buy all the toys you wanted as a kid
An excellent source of your daily requirement of laughter
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
Isn't this sweet. I don't know many parents who fingerpaint with their high school children, but I do know many who wait up all night worrying where their children are. I know many who have to bail their children out of jail. I know many who watch their children battle addictions and depression. I even know some whose children have abused them.
My point? WHY DO PEOPLE WITH CHILDREN ALWAYS HAVE TO PROVE HOW GREAT IT IS, HMM?
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posted on
01/08/2005 12:40:16 PM PST
by
Hildy
( To work is to dance, to live is to worship, to breathe is to love.)
To: Hildy
"WHY DO PEOPLE WITH CHILDREN ALWAYS HAVE TO PROVE HOW GREAT IT IS, HMM?"
Probably for the same reason people without children try so hard to prove how great it is without them.
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posted on
01/08/2005 12:56:01 PM PST
by
heylady
To: Hildy
Teenagers are not that hard to handle if you have established a good relationship during their formative years. We told ours that they were now old enough to make their own decisions (as they were doing that anyway) so they were also old enough to be responsible for them. I told my son he could do anything that he wanted....but if he got in trouble he was on his own. He had fun - is still having fun in his young 30's - no trouble - worked for me.
Arch
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posted on
01/08/2005 1:08:38 PM PST
by
Archer24
To: heylady
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posted on
01/08/2005 1:26:24 PM PST
by
Hildy
( To work is to dance, to live is to worship, to breathe is to love.)
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
Nag Note: divide $160,140 and you get the hourly equivalent of a full-time worker at minimum wage after taxes; IOW some people either do it for less or it can't be done, which is probably the thrust behind this piece.
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posted on
01/08/2005 1:32:31 PM PST
by
Old Professer
(When the fear of dying no longer obtains no act is unimaginable.)
To: Old Professer
Works out to about $8,900/year for the 18 years and the gov keeps FSIC, right?
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posted on
01/08/2005 1:36:04 PM PST
by
Old Professer
(When the fear of dying no longer obtains no act is unimaginable.)
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140 (US) for a middle-income familyHow can anyone with more than two brain molecules possibly believe this?
How can you live in the United States that abounds in millions of low and middle income families - most with two or more kids - who will clearly never spend that on raising their kids because they can't afford to......and buy this BS?
And since when has ANY prediction of cost determined by the government been even remotely right?
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posted on
01/08/2005 1:40:10 PM PST
by
Lizavetta
(Modern liberalism: Where everyone must look different but think the same.)
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
Dear God. I need 3/4 of a million dollars.........
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posted on
01/08/2005 1:41:49 PM PST
by
KoRn
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
Wow, how much will it be to raise my 6 kids?
We shop in thrift stores.
The only new stuff they get is socks and undies.
We buy food from bent and dent grocers when possible.
We do not all go to the movies each time something comes out. We wait for the $4.00 DVD at Blockbuster.
We do not overindulge or overspend.
The kids play together and enjoy each other.
We pray, love, forgive, and keep going.
We don't own a brand new vehicle or live in a beautiful new home. But the home is filled with immense and intense love. The van we do have gets us where we need to go.
Each child is so immensely talented. My oldest is an artist and wants to go into graphic design. My second has an exceptional voice and loves banking and cooking. My third wants to be a scientist in genetic engineering. My fourth is going to be a writer and missionary. My fifth is also a budding little "artist girl." My youngest is a natural ballerina and way prettier than Shirley Temple ever was.
I do not hate money, I acutally wish we had more of it, but the heart of a family is not engendered in the bank.
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posted on
01/08/2005 2:35:50 PM PST
by
Conservatrix
("He's a barf." --- Sophia T., Age 4, on John Sawed-Off Baldrick "I have a cunning plan" Kerry)
To: tutstar
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posted on
01/08/2005 2:41:23 PM PST
by
Nightshift
(Ignorance on your part, doesn't require a reply on my part.)
To: KoRn
Dear God,
Thanks for providing our needs.
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posted on
01/08/2005 3:28:18 PM PST
by
tutstar
( <{{--->< http://ripe4change.4-all.org Violations of Florida Statutes ongoing!)
To: Rhiannon
Must be talking about young children, when they become teenagers , you start questioning whether if any expense is worth it, when they are disrespectful, rebellious and arguementative.
I have just figured out why parents have heart attacks at this age. It because they have teenagers the specialize in enraging their parents.
I'm of the persuasion that all families/children go through that "rebellious" phase: when the children get all uppity and think THEY know better than the parents about several things....it is the families that are well-grounded, though, that can weather these up-and-down pitfalls, relying on faith to get them through the "trying times"....
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posted on
01/09/2005 7:01:30 AM PST
by
ConservativeStLouisGuy
(11th FReeper Commandment: Thou Shalt Not Unnecessarily Excerpt)
To: nuke rocketeer
You forgot:
An eager retriever of launched model rockets
A good excuse to buy all the toys you wanted as a kid
An excellent source of your daily requirement of laughter
Yes, yes -- those and MANY MORE! :-)
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posted on
01/09/2005 7:02:53 AM PST
by
ConservativeStLouisGuy
(11th FReeper Commandment: Thou Shalt Not Unnecessarily Excerpt)
To: ConservativeStLouisGuy
I have six.
I pity those who count the cost.
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posted on
01/09/2005 7:03:03 AM PST
by
Jim Noble
(Colgate '72)
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