Oh, my. I still have my original ss card, and it's in my maiden name. Just celebrated my 30th anniversary, as well.
A lesson the longtime married ladies (among other lessons) can teach the young married ladies. Change the name on your docs.!
You might want to go get it fixed. They used my passport and marriage license and fixed everything in 10 minutes (if you don't count the time in line at DPS and driving to Timbuktu and back.)