Actually I am not bossy at all, I hate to order people around. I am more likely to be judgemental as the kids say. I have no trouble telling people they did something I think is wrong but before the fact, I just don't like telling people what to do, even giving advice. So I think I am sort of a wussie fascist.
Yeah, I am not bossy either. But, I do have preconceived notions of how, basically, everyone should live. And I don't want to harm the people that don't fall into my narrowly defined parameters, I just don't really want them anywhere near me or my family. Fascist lite, maybe? LOL.