I found out a couple of days ago that my wife of 12 years has been cheating on me. Sure we had our problems any marriage has them but I was trying to fix them. I guess I was doing it wrong.
I don't smoke, drink, or go out with the boys. I'm not a fat slob who sits around after work watching the tube. I don't ogle cute women when I'm out with her though she ogles the guys. I didn't say a word but I hated it. She flirts alot which I also hate but I accepted it because I loved her.
I do 90% of the cooking and help out with the housework and with our three kids. I'm sure I could do more on the housework part. Every weekend she has off I let her sleep in and make her coffee and breakfast. The weekends she works I make her coffee and dinner after she wakes up.
I take her out to dinner and shows but apparently not enough. According to her I haven't listened to her on her needs which she may be right on some of it.
Let me tell you that I would feel less pain if she would have shot me in the gut.
Right now I say take marriage and shove it where the light don't shine cause it sucks.
People who cheat on their spouses are nothing but low lifes with no moral compass. There are two guys where I work that are cheating on their wifes and I want to punch them in the face everytime I see them.
I could go on but I'm cutting up her pictures I have of her around my office and its almost time to go home.
She can blame you all she wants, wont change a thing.
It was her choice
She is wrong
Things will never be the same
The marriage may well be over, but it can be salvaged. Not an easy thing...
If there is any way of keeping it from the kids, I would advise that. If the marriage survives, you don't want them to know what their mother did.