No, you old coot herb, YOU and your wife are caught in something you can't control. Hence the whining on your part.
I saw a picture of mz "young" on another thread today...IMHO ole herb is so afraid of this "woman" he would not dare disagree with her.
She "appears" to be so evil, i'll almost bet you that he would think Hillary Klintoon would be a kind and considerate "goddess"!!!
Somebody close by please hurry and loan him a gun so he can end his misery!!!