[Modernman]

Parents don't owe their kids a college education at any college they want to go to. If I had a kid with this problem I certainly wouldn't send them to Brown.

So, you'd be okay sending your gay kid to Penn State but not to Brown? What is the difference, other than cost and the fact that Brown is a much better school?

[JCEccles]

Brown is a much better school

According to whose standards?

[JCEccles]

"Modernman" in a gay tolerant society is on the path to becoming "extinctman."

[Varda]

Not Penn State or Notre Dame etc, there are other schools if education is the right thing to do in that moment. A kid with these problems has more important issues to work through than education. This particular girl strikes me as terribly troubled. Her other behavior (and coupled with this) seems very personally hostile to her father.