I'm sorry for your loss. Could you share your story of having family members raped or murdered?
Okay smartass, my cousin was shot in Philly. The perp had a rap sheet a mile long. My uncle, although not raped, was killed by a drunk driver who had dozens of DUI's and had already killed someone in a previuos DUI caused accident. Personally, I was mugged when I was a young adult by a bunch of thugs with priors longer than your sleeve.
Next time, take your smugness elsewhere, pal.
Oh, and if you are looking for rape, a classmate of mine was raped and murdered. Never did catch the guy, but I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that it wasn't the first time.