How abominable is it when a man refuses to let the woman he professes to love feel the sun on her face, music in her ears, the smell of flowers in her nose or a rehab nurse to flex her atrophied muscles?
MS could have ended all this speculation at anytime by agreeing to a complete examination by an independant specialist -- he forbade that? Why? If you were accused of a heinous crime of which you were innocent, wouldn't you want the truth to be discovered at the earliest possible moment? And if you were guilty of that crime, wouldn't you want to make the evidence unavailable and destroyed as soon as possible? That doesn't prove MS was an abuser but he, himself, has IMHO, acted in complete consistency with the actions of a guilty man, and with no resemblance to the grieving, wronged party he claims to be ... is that proof: of course not! Is that mighty damn suspicious? You betcha!!!