I've already made up my mind to, on day one of school, tell the teacher that if my son causes any problems for her or is in anyway not a good boy to give me a ring and we'll be sure to nip it in the bud.
I haven't totally decided whether or not to send him to the county school here (thank God it definitely won't be city schools) or some private Christian school like I went to. Just not sure yet..
You sound like you have it pretty together as a parent and I congratulate you. It takes responsible families to make a village! :) I had four and my youngest is a mother. For me, it's a "been there, done that" thing, but I know when this became a major societal issue. That was back in the late eighties and early nineties and EVERYTHING changed. I wish you luck.