When the roles are reversed there is a wink and a knowing nod, the culprit gets a slap on the wrist and all the hero guys feel cheated.
I doubt it ... but you never know. The question is interesting to me, though, because the "much-older man" dynamic is popular in movies and TV. Sean Connery in his 70's with women in their 20's, for example. A "thing" with an older man is presented as desirable.
Young girls are easily influenced by pop culture. In fact, young girls are easily influenced by just about *anything*, which is one reason they should be protected by adults, not used by adults. I have a 14-year-old daughter; I know what she and her friends are like. I don't care how physically-adult they seem - they are two tacos short of a combination plate, judgment-wise.
And lest I seem to be male-bashing, I would substitute "boys" for "girls" anywhere in my comments.