This doesn't make any sense - the woman implies a suicide pact.
I have no doubt that the PIC was trying as hard as he could to get the aircraft down safely.
Looks like what happened here is a simple failure to maintain airspeed during an emergency landing. Stall/spin.
Also, is there a computer simulator that you can purchase with footpedals and yoke that mimic the "stall". Maybe with the new faster computers and 3-D/goggles it might be profitable to develop a way of putting in the flight characteristics of the plane you're flying and practice stalling without dying.