I am very sorry to hear about your story. My wife and I tried for 2 years to have a child, and she finally got pregnant after endometriosis surgery. Unfortunately, C.F. died as a result of a miscarriage. We recently found out that we're pregnant once more, but you are exactly right that unthinking people ask very personal (and inappropriate) questions. You're also correct that children--and even just getting pregnant--are taken for granted. I will definitely keep you in my prayers.
Thank you very much. I am NOT sorry for myself. I have a rich, fulfilling life, that will only be more so if I can someday have a child. Just do one thing--don't go one day without thanking God for having your child. You seem like you won't.
This posting really reminded me again of what really is important in our lives. The little mundane things we complain about aren't.