[Lorianne]

Obviously, he doesn't value mom staying home with children.
A lot of men would rather have the 2nd income than a stay at home mom for the kids.

[wideawake]

A lot of men would rather have the 2nd income than a stay at home mom for the kids.

Not I.

I'm an actual man.

[tfecw]

She's not a stay at home mom for the kids.

She's a, "happens to be at home because she wanted to coast on her earnings mom when they are living with her instead of their father every other week"

As for why they got divorced? If he was cheating or beating the ol wife i highly doubt he would have equal custody of the kiddies. We aren't talking about a deadbeat dad, we're talking about a person who has the potential to earn 400,000 bucks a year decided she doesn't want to work anymore because the ex can pay for things.

[cardinal4]

A lot of men would rather have the 2nd income than a stay at home mom for the kids.

Im not one of them..

[Modernman]

Obviously, he doesn't value mom staying home with children.

No, he doesn't value her refusing to pull her weight financially. Her little mid-life crisis is costing him $4000 more per month.

[GreenOgre]

Why doesn't she go to work and he can stay at home and watch the kids? What about equal protection under the law? They have 50/50 time with the kids. He has as much a right to be a shirker as she does. Oh, he's a guy so he gets stuck with all the responsibilites, but none of the rights. The next Civil Rights movement needs to be for fathers who are immediately guilty when they set foot in Family Court.