I don't care what you and your wife decide to do but I don't want anyone starving/dehydrating me or my husband to death under any circumstances.
Too bad. The rules have changed. If you want to excercise your Constitutional right to life, you must request it in writing, and hope the court agrees. If any of your relatives, former spouse(s), doctor, neighbor, or complete stranger says you want to be killed, that trumps everything.