"You're the one who did not acknowledge my point that a devoted spouse's willingness to care for an incapacitated spouse may change over the years. I thought that was a crucial point."
I believe that the Schindlers had her in their home about 10 years ago for a little while and found they could not handle the amount of care she needed - so they sent her back. I don't believe they have gotten any younger since then.
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