[bvw]

For death who doesn't want the most peaceful way, at home, among loved ones? A few who don't want the loved ones to bear the experience quite so directly, but most as you say.

And love alone has few ethics or morality. At least what the low-grade warm fuzzy comfort love you seem to espouse. For example, Jimmy Cagney's bad guy in White Heat had a whole lot of that love for his ma.

[summer]

At least what the low-grade warm fuzzy comfort love you seem to espouse.

"low-grade" ????-- I think it is the ultimate difficult task to care for, and watch, someone you love die, It is heartbreaking, And, it is clear to me you have no idea what I am talking about, otherwise you would never use a word such as "low-grade" -- talk about misrepresentations!!!!

Try buying an issue of one of several new magazines for caregivers and find out what agony people are going through in these painful and sad circumstances. Your comment is an insult, and an extremely thoughtless one at that. Good night.