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Dad Says He Failed As Father; Pastor Calls On Friends, Family To Celebrate Miller's Life [funeral]
KCCI-TV, Des Moines ^ | July 14, 2005

Posted on 07/15/2005 6:10:21 AM PDT by newgeezer

For education and discussion purposes only.

CHARLES CITY, Iowa -- The presiding pastor at Evelyn Miller's funeral Thursday said it was time to celebrate the life of the 5-year-old girl.

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Evelyn disappeared from her home July 1. Her body was found days later in the Cedar River.

The Rev. Phil Corr tried to focus on the positives of Miller's short life. But even he acknowledged that it's very difficult when something like this happens to someone so young.

Candy necklaces greeted attendees at the front door of the First Congregational Church in Charles City. They were her favorite candy.

Evelyn played with friends, laughed and grinned like any other child.

In the church sanctuary, a tiny urn with candles behind it was surrounded by teddy bears and dozens of flower arrangements. There was also a picture of a happy, smiling girl who's now gone.

"She was so, so precious and bright. And I don't understand how someone could be so cruel and selfish to do this to so many who loved and cared for Evelyn. So much I can't even explain. She hadn't even experienced life at her age," said Noel Miller, Evelyn's mother.

Noel Miller tries to come to terms with losing her daughter, who she called Evey.

Evelyn's father didn't live at home with her, and it now haunts him that he wasn't around when she disappeared in the night.

"I hope that you understand how much I love you and how much I miss you, how much all of us love and miss you. Yet I feel as though I have failed as your father. I was not there to protect you, to keep you from harm. And I was not there in your most desperate time of need," said Andy Christie, Evelyn's father.

During the family's time of need when Evelyn disappeared, hundreds of people searched for Evelyn. Some of those same people joined Evelyn's family and friends, to remember her.

"It seems like yesterday she was in my arms and I was rocking her to sleep. Taking her first steps and telling me how much she loved me," Noel Miller said.

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TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; News/Current Events; US: Iowa
KEYWORDS: childmurdered; childneglect; deadbeatdad; divorce; evelynmiller
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To: very disturbed in iowa
I also find it hard to believe what Marilyn Dettmer says,"No one is in anymore danger than before this happened."

That's a pretty ridiculous statement by Marily Dettmer...is she the prosecutor?

If they haven't caught the killer how could anyone really feel safe, especially people with kids?

21 posted on 07/16/2005 12:45:24 PM PDT by SunnyUsa (No man really becomes a fool until he stops asking questions.)
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To: very disturbed in iowa
I don't believe in putting the blame on the father.

I don't see anyone putting all the blame on him. But, it's awfully difficult to argue against his point that he failed her. He most certainly failed her (not that he's the only one).

22 posted on 07/16/2005 2:12:33 PM PDT by newgeezer (Just my opinion, of course. Your mileage may vary.)
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To: very disturbed in iowa
just read in the paper today that they found the body of a 47 year-old female in her garage in Nora Springs

I just read that the husband of that woman is under arrest...so that should be a relief.

Any updates on the Evelyn Miller investitgation from local news?

The family's DHS investigation of abuse/neglect will be made public on August 1st. The community will at least get a better understanding as to what went on in that home, and maybe it will provide more clues as to what could've happened to her.

23 posted on 07/17/2005 8:44:15 AM PDT by SunnyUsa (No man really becomes a fool until he stops asking questions.)
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To: newgeezer; very disturbed in iowa; iowamark
Authorities interviewing sex offenders in search for Evelyn's killer

Alot of updates in this article.

The mother and her live-in boyfriend haven't had custody of the little boys since early July, and they've had to submit to urine drug screenings.....there is so much more to this story we don't know.

24 posted on 07/20/2005 4:58:09 AM PDT by SunnyUsa (No man really becomes a fool until he stops asking questions.)
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To: SunnyUsa

Thank you for the ping. I was wondering when we'd finally get some news about the role of drugs in all of this.


25 posted on 07/20/2005 5:39:05 AM PDT by newgeezer (Just my opinion, of course. Your mileage may vary.)
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To: SunnyUsa
The story is now posted here.

Thanks again.

26 posted on 07/20/2005 6:08:31 AM PDT by newgeezer (Just my opinion, of course. Your mileage may vary.)
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To: SunnyUsa
there is so much more to this story we don't know.

Does any of this surprise you?

27 posted on 07/20/2005 6:23:26 AM PDT by iowamark
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