This just makes me ill. It takes one egg (from a woman) and one sperm (from a man) to make a child. Children deserve to know their parentage.
The slippery slope seems to have an awful lot of Vaseline on it these days.
The problem of "parent" and "parent" is that it eliminates the gender differences inherent in "mother" and "father". A mother is not just a female parent, it is a distinct role, as is being a father.
For lesbian couples, record the name of the birth mother and "Sperm Donor" as the father.
For turd burglars, list the father and "Womb Donor" as the mother.
The "other parent" can get his/her name on an adoption certificate.
Just call 'em "Thing One" and "Thing Two".
I think in the interest of keeping the most useful information, birth certificates should be required to list the name of the people who gave the egg and sperm. If they want to have additional names, that's fine. If they want to have a second, non-official document, that's fine.
But when the kid is 25, and we discover the cure for something, but it requires cells from a parent, we'll feel pretty stupid knowing that for the sake of PC we sacrificed these children's chance for treatment.
Most if not all states routinely issue birth certificates showing the names of adoptive parents, instead of biological parents. And all states routinely issue birth certificates listing whatever man the mother happens to name as "father", with research showing that a large percentage of these are not the actual biological fathers. Birth certificates, at least for the past century or so, have never been intended as a means of identifying a child's biological parentage, but rather as a means of identifying a child's legal parentage -- who has rights to make decisions for the child.
So on the registration form, do they identify homosexual couples by asking: "Two 'B', or not two 'B'?" ;)
"Thing" is used here neither dismissively nor derisively, but as a term of stunning accuracy. Throughout our culture, children have become objectified, "thingified," created or acquired for the fulfillment of our selves - decor options, accessories, cute little bundles for our entertainment and amusement.
Precisely.
As George Orwell said, "We have now sunk to a depth at which restatement of the obvious is the first duty of intelligent men."
Or as G.K. Chesterton said, "The act of defending any of the cardinal virtues has today all the exhilaration of a vice."