"why she never went to a gay barbeque with her son"?
I really couldn't care less. My guess is that she's an old leftist bytch whose leftist children didn't get that way by accident. It is possible that she never quite caught up with the left-wing party line on the gay issue. So what?
My grandfather was a left wing Democrat (except on guns and the death penalty). I loved him and wish he were still with me nonetheless. Let's not dance on a person's grave because of their politics.
cause all the hot dogs taste like s@$^. (its a joke, son)