[GSlob]

"Modest?..."
I wrote "modest, but decent". And both modesty and decency are in the eye of beholder - in this case, they would be in my eye...

[JohnnyZ]

And both modesty and decency are in the eye of beholder

As a general rule -- not quite. Modesty and decency are rather judged by the workings of a beholder with a properly formed conscience, which takes into account contemporary community standards and unchanging laws of morality. Or something like that.