I couldn't agree with you more...this is just so WRONG, in so many ways..
I am glad this live thread is here though...because I am learning things from reading all of the posts...
I want to thank all that post on this thread..for people like I am, basically ignorant of most of this, but CARE DEEPLY about this...it helps to read ya'lls posts!
I agree with you about this thread....I keep thinking that I'm missing some huge important fact that will make all of this seem like a great idea. I'll keep reading....haven't found it yet!