Posted on 08/24/2005 2:59:33 PM PDT by Crackingham
I hear he goes to AVN parties and sets up a table. Porn people actually pick up stuff from his table. Weird.
We all fail. Nobody is "good."
Our righteousness, even among the ones that may seem the most righteous, are as filthy rags.
Porn is a big struggle for a lot of Christian men at my school.
Even one of the most amazing Christians I know, a former roommate of mine from South Korea, had porn on his computer that I found one day to my shock. I would never have imagined he struggled with it.
My suggestion is to get more involved in the congregation yourself, and not to dwell so much on the (lackluster) preaching. As I was pointing out to Mister Diddy, there's more reason for being in a congregation than simply that you like the preacher's preaching.
And while I am not accusing you of this, the ancient Christians (as represented by the early Church Fathers) regarded the attitude that "I'm not getting anything out of church attendance" as an indication of the spiritual sin of Sloth, the "noonday demon," wanting more out of the community than they are willing to put in, etc.
Amen.
I attend the Reformed Presbyterian Church. I love it.
The reason it's a problem is because many Christians are taught that they are free to violate God's laws, the 10 commandments. Porn falls under the heading of adultery. If we truly let Christ live in and through us he will not violate his fathers commandment. If we go along for the ride and let Christ work in us, neither will we.
He has gone to porn festivals and set up a booth there. How he doesn't get tempted to go visit the other booths and view the stuff, I don't know.
---Porn is selfish and self obsorbed..--
So was my last girlfriend, who was VERY religious
Obvious he's not looking or it would be all over the place. I remember when the guy that was in charge of Focus on the Family's Love Won Out, ex-gay ministry was reported to be sitting in a gay bar. Oh boy.
I'm no hlier-than-thou church-lady critic, but I really have got to wonder what the heck that means. Is Church just a social hour (or three) after all?
Actaully I probably misspoke. I think it's "tweens" who are not having sex, but having Monica hookups.
Waking up 3 or more mornings per week with a woody?
Often, the biggest crusader against this kind of stuff is driven by their own problems with said stuff. Inner guilt and selfloathing fuel their machinations to quench the external input.
He should only try another church if it was preordained from eternity past that he would try another church. Otherwise he should do some other preordained thing.
And a man only has a problem with porn or having brown eyes if it was preordained from eternity past, before they were born, that they would have the porn problem or brown eyes.
I'm in the business (search, not porn). It's true.
Pray we can get rid of the income tax. It stops the pastors from speaking out on government, or else they lose their tax free status......
I wonder why so many married couples have men with porn issues. Is it because of past premarital sex? Or the woman who doesn't want to have any when she's older because of menopause? Or the young,nubile images as compared to a wife who has had a few kids and over forty?
It's a combination of things. I'll rattle off a few that come to mind, speaking from the man's point of view.
The wife don't want sex anymore. I'm tired of begging. And waiting. She's gained all that weight. It's risky -- "forbidden" even. I'll just take a look once, then I won't ever do it again. No one will ever know. It feels good. It's free. It's easily accessible. It doesn't want all that foreplay first. It doesn't want polite conversation afterwards. It's anonymous. It "doesn't hurt anybody." It's "better than having affairs." It's sexy --- much sexier than the wife is now after 3 kids. It's kinky... she won't do kinky. I want kinky. I deserve kinky, dammit. It never has a headache. It's ready when I am. It doesn't care if I'm sloppy. It doesn't care if I can't get it up. The wife pays more attention to the kids now than she does me. I don't have to shower first. It doesn't get grossed out by my 3-month old toe jam like she does. The wife won't even do oral sex, much less something a little more 'out there.' I don't have to snuggle and all that crap afterwards; I can smoke a cigarette, expel flatulence, then crawl into bed and go to sleep instead.I'm just getting started. ;-)
Yeah :D
I've actually seen that Scion tooling around Laguna Beach and wondered what was up with that, whether it was actually a really twisted porn site. Hey, whatever works. Anybody who can work a reference to the oralse.cx "Please think about the kittens" parody PSA into an anti-porn ministry is my kind of guy.
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