I'm sure it's hard for women to deal with, but all I was saying is that the average man is not very mindful of that challenge women face. It's no less real, but when men talk about what they want in a woman, it doesn't come up until a woman raises it! :-)
Yeah,
I just get a giggle everytime I hear a guy say "I want a woman without baggage" and he's dragging around steamer trunks.