I was being sarcastic. I think people change drastically. In my 20's I was a topless dancer. Now I pastor a church, lead girl scouts, work in bookkeeping.... To judge the entire value of someone based on their past performances, performances they regret, without taking into consideration that human beings grow up is narrow-minded and hard-hearted in my opinion. The man in my life has lead a very conservative lifestyle. I'm kinda surprised he's weathered some of the stories of my past a couple of times.
I'm very glad to hear about you and your lady. Congrats.