For instance, when my mother passed away at 32 (they were married at that point for 5 1/2 years), my father, then 36, donated their wedding bands to her old parish church, a couple hundred miles away, to be melted down for a Golden Chalice to hold communion at mass.
Because my immigrant grandparents rarely traveled, he also returned her body to her parents to be buried at the family cemetery plot. We visited my grandparents and the cemetery several times a year.
The above is the manner in which a good man treats his wife and her parents.
In my opinion only, I think the Schindlers are grieving over a vase of cement mix. I just can't see Michael doing them any favors such as a proper burial. It was just to take the heat off of him for not letting them know, which got him negative publicity.