My daughters school did this and it was a mistake. They couldn't get the girls to dress according to the code, they wore no bras and extremely short skirts. One went around threatening to beat anyones a$$ that got in her way. A boy they allowed in was caught selling drugs......it was disruptive in the extreme.
Then as an administrator, you deal with that. You let the kids know that it is a privilege, not a right. And that disruptive behavior will go out the door.
Which brings me back to my "I wonder what the kid did at the football game to warrant a parent conference" question.
My daughters school did this and it was a mistake. They couldn't get the girls to dress according to the code, they wore no bras and extremely short skirts. One went around threatening to beat anyones a$$ that got in her way. A boy they allowed in was caught selling drugs......it was disruptive in the extreme.
At, which point, you kick their butts out.....Sooner rather than later.
However, let's assume that a teenager is rebelling against the drug-using and totally depraced lifestyle of her parents. Should she be judged by her own behavior or the behavior of her parents?