On MTV you can change the channel if you don't wish to see it.
At a party at a house outside of DC you can leave the party if you don't wish to see it. Though I'll guess that those attending that party, and those throwing that party were all willing participants.
That's not the case here. The people working those cruises were told there was to be a cruise for the players, their wives and girlfriends. Hardly what happened...
Put your 20 year old daughter on a boat in the middle of a lake with 30-40 very large men and 10 naked women all engaging in playing with large K-Y jelly covered sex toys, oral sex, lap dances...
Where do the people that don't wish to see it go? Over the side of the boat? Can they change the channel?
Maybe if one of those large men grabbed your 20 year old daughter by the arm and turned off the lights and wouldn't let go while growling in her ear and asking if she was going to dance next you'd still think this was all blown out of proportion?
Maybe if four or five of those large men blocked your 23 year old daughter behind the bar and laid a stripper on that bar and proceeded to perform oral sex on her with your daughter 3 feet away and unable to get out from behind the bar while they laughed at her discomfort you'd think this was all blown out of proportion?
No?
I didn't think so.
Good points.