What a horrible and evil thing to say. That man probably suffered a great deal.
All of us have done something stupid, it's what makes us human.
On the contrary, it was probably rather quick. yes yes, I've been taken to the woodshed already, and apologies are offered. The truth is, if this were an engineer at a bday party doing the same, a lot more "darwin nominee" postings would have appeared. And it was NOT a criticism of his being a Pastor, it's observant that a man who should know better still did something so utterly dumb.
By the way, you HAVE written all the others who talked about his being a Darwin Award nominee, or made other dark jests as well, right?