[Mr. Jeeves]

So there you have it; probably the most extraordinary reason for the end of a marriage that you’ve ever heard.

Hold on a second - that's sort of a non-sequitur. You are leaving something out: are you getting divorced because you don't want go to Samoa with her or because she doesn't want you to come?

Are you the one putting your career in North Carolina ahead of the marriage?

[jdm]

"Are you the one putting your career in North Carolina ahead of the marriage?"

Seems like there was a distance to begin with:

Husband:

Wife: