You don't know how true what you just is...you wanna know what the kid said to his Father at the Seder table? He said...to his Father..."WHY ARE YOU SO GAY? WHY ARE YOU SUCH A WIMP?" The kid was just being honest...he picked the wrong forum...and the wrong night to tell his Father the truth.
Wow. So sad. The problem is, the kid will often try to either over-compensate, or give up completely.
And then the kid's future children will overcompensate in reaction, creating a cycle....and what is in some circles known as a 'generational curse.'
There is a bestselling book entitled Wild At Heart that deals with Biblical masculinity and manhood, there are also other books including one by James Dobson but I don't know the titles.