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Why avoid using 'Merry Christmas'?
Christian Science Monitor ^ | 12/1/05 | Beth Waldron

Posted on 11/30/2005 2:46:46 PM PST by pissant

CHAPEL HILL, N.C. – The all-inclusive "Happy Holidays" greeting has become an annual December puzzler for towns, public schools, and businesses: How do we respect the holiday traditions of one group of citizens without causing detriment to another? While Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, and in some years Ramadan and Diwali, share the same season, last year's polls show around 96 percent of Americans celebrate Christmas.

For a pluralistic nation that prides itself upon embracing both freedom of expression and the separation of church and state, the widespread public celebration of Christmas poses a unique quandary. Guiding public displays of Christmas cheer are a patchwork of inconsistent, local-level policies - the perfect conditions under which litigation emerges.

Successive years of legal action by civil libertarians have effectively curtailed the public promotion of all things "Christmas," giving rise to more politically correct - and judiciously safe - "Holiday" observances. In doing so, public officials and retailers alike have nurtured a well-founded hypersensitivity to the opinions of a minority group.

But just when the scales of political correctness seem to be gaining balance, along comes a new backlash. This year, it's the majority group of Christmas adherents who are alleging a persecution of beliefs.

After nearly two decades of watching community Christmas parades slowly evolve into Holiday parades, school Christmas vacation into winter break, and town hall crèches into snowmen, Christmas observers are revolting.

Among the recent reactionary signs:

• More than 800 lawyers are enrolled for the third year of The Alliance Defense Fund's Christmas Project initiative, which supplies legal aid to towns and schools nationwide that face challenges to their traditional Christmas celebrations. Last year, the initiative successfully defended Christmas displays on public property by the town of Cranston, R.I., and the school district of Bossier Parrish, La.

• During a Nov. 9 broadcast, FOX news commentator Bill O'Reilly launched the first volley in an all-out television-based offensive against retailers which shun "Merry Christmas" for "Happy Holidays," going so far as to list specific offending merchants that should be boycotted.

• After threatening a boycott of Wal-Mart stores in early November, the Catholic League for Religious and Civil Rights successfully won concessions from the retail chain after an employee offered up his own explanation to a customer via e-mail for the store's policy of wishing customers "Happy Holidays" in lieu of "Merry Christmas." Wal-Mart stood by its all-inclusive "Happy Holidays" greeting, but did publicly apologize and promptly fired the offending employee.

• The Rev. Jerry Falwell and the conservative Liberty Counsel have launched a "Friend or Foe Christmas Campaign." Armed with 750 lawyers, the group promises to "reclaim Christmas" by filing suit against anyone who, in their view, limits the public celebration of Christmas. Reverend Falwell recently publically criticized the city of Boston for a reference on its website to the annual lighting of its "Holiday Tree."

• The conservative 150,000 member American Family Association has called for a boycott of Target stores for not utilizing the specific phrase "Merry Christmas" in their holiday advertising.

• A California organization called "The Committee to Save Merry Christmas" has garnered national media coverage with a grass-roots campaign to boycott Sears and Federated Department Stores Inc. for changing their advertising from "Merry Christmas" to "Season's Greetings."

The fundamental message of today's Christmas crusaders is not new; merely the societal context has changed. In the early 1950s, groups of clergy first began organizing against what they considered the disturbing commercialization and secularization of Christmas. While their efforts were largely confined to using the power of the pulpit, today's pleas are most likely to leverage the power of the judiciary and the court of public opinion.

In the end, the balance between sensitivity and celebration may always be elusive. A CNN/USA Today/Gallop poll conducted last year showed that Americans were evenly split on whether the public shift from "Christmas" to "Holidays" was a change for the better.

Such societal ambivalence exemplifies how the masquerading of traditionally held beliefs with insincere modern sensitivity ultimately serves no one well. When towns hold "Community Tree" lightings, do we all - majority and minority alike - not understand on a deeper level that it is really an old-fashioned "Christmas Tree" lighting redefined for the modern, politically correct era? Is it any big secret that the $435 billion dollar "Holiday shopping" bonanza currently under way is comprised primarily of "Christmas" gift buying? And when school children go on vacation for "winter break," do we not accept that it will always occur during Christmas week?

By softening the "Christmas" connection simply for December etiquette, we neither fully show sensitivity toward the views of the minority nor genuinely celebrate the traditions of the majority. We are left then with a sanitized holiday season, fraught with fears of politically incorrect missteps. Then, no one has a truly happy holiday of any sort.


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To: red irish

I say "Merry Christmas", and that is what I mean.

But if a nationwide chain of stores adopts an official policy of saying words to people as they walk around the store, it is hardly likely that most of the employees are going to attribute ANY meaning to those words, even if those words are "Merry Christmas".

If a checkout clerk says "Have a Nice Day", it is polite but I don't take much meaning from it. If I say "You have a great day" to the checkout clerk, they know I really mean it, because it isn't in my performance plan to say those words.

I would like the stores to have a policy that allows their employees to say "Merry Christmas" if the employee chooses to do so. But I don't care if the store itself MANDATES a particular thing that must be said by greeters, like "Happy Holidays".

I hope this clarifies my position.


81 posted on 12/01/2005 1:03:29 PM PST by CharlesWayneCT
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To: henderson field; SJackson; Alouette; dennisw
Observations of Hanuka and Kwanza fall into the same cateogry as speaking Spanish -- the hallmark of people who are disrepectful of the United States and everything it has give them, which is everything. The question is, why did we allow these people into our country if we knew they would be so ungrateful?

Hannukah is disrespectful of the United States?

82 posted on 12/01/2005 1:31:34 PM PST by Petronski (Cyborg is the greatest blessing I have ever known.)
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To: Petronski; henderson field
Hannukah is disrespectful of the United States?

To folks who don't feel Jews have a place in America, sure. They're a small minority, and their actions feed the Foxmans of the world.

83 posted on 12/01/2005 1:40:15 PM PST by SJackson (People have learned from Gaza that resistance succeeds, not smart negotiators., Hassem Darwish)
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To: SJackson

Henderson field feeds the Foxmans of this world?





Yeah, I can see that.


84 posted on 12/01/2005 1:42:21 PM PST by Petronski (Cyborg is the greatest blessing I have ever known.)
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To: pissant

I’m no Bible thumping hard core right wing Christian – but I still say “Merry Christmas”.


85 posted on 12/01/2005 1:44:41 PM PST by R. Scott (Humanity i love you because when you're hard up you pawn your Intelligence to buy a drink.)
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To: Salvation

He might be. But I can't stand to listen to Bill, despite him being right on SOME issues.


86 posted on 12/01/2005 1:47:17 PM PST by pissant
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To: R. Scott

the majority of Americans would fit your self description, and 99% don't mind or prefer Merry Christmas. It's the radical PC crowd that needs to be slapped down.


87 posted on 12/01/2005 1:49:00 PM PST by pissant
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To: Malesherbes

LOL. You are a punmeister


88 posted on 12/01/2005 1:50:41 PM PST by pissant
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To: Petronski

And I'd have to admit that Abe would be right. I simply recognize this is a small, minority opinion, with little support. Others might not believe that, and activists would use the minority example to disparage the majority. That's how we've arrived at arguements about Christmas Trees and Creches.


89 posted on 12/01/2005 1:51:22 PM PST by SJackson (People have learned from Gaza that resistance succeeds, not smart negotiators., Hassem Darwish)
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To: gathersnomoss

I do not know. Use the white flock spray and put it in your rear window!


90 posted on 12/01/2005 1:52:54 PM PST by pissant
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To: MediaMole

I was trying to be humble. ;O)


91 posted on 12/01/2005 1:53:42 PM PST by pissant
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To: SJackson

Agreed on all counts.


92 posted on 12/01/2005 1:54:23 PM PST by Petronski (Cyborg is the greatest blessing I have ever known.)
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To: henderson field; Petronski
BTW, as to why we allowed the ungrateful Jews in the country, let me refer you to George Washington. One of our founding neo-cons. Liberal too, as you'll note from the letter. And no, a response isn't necessary, I won't be able to reply unless it's in the next half hour, though someone else can.

To the Hebrew Congregation in Newport Rhode Island.

Gentleman.

While I receive, with much satisfaction, your Address replete with expressions of affection and esteem; I rejoice in the opportunity of assuring you, that I shall always retain a grateful remembrance of the cordial welcome I experienced in my visit to Newport, from all classes of Citizens.

The reflection on the days of difficulty and danger which are past is rendered the more sweet, from a consciousness that they are succeeded by days of uncommon prosperity and security. If we have wisdom to make the best use of the advantages with which we are now favored, we cannot fail, under the just administration of a good Government, to become a great and happy people.

The Citizens of the United States of America have a right to applaud themselves for having given to mankind examples of an enlarged and liberal policy: a policy worthy of imitation. All possess alike liberty of conscience and immunities of citizenship. It is now no more that toleration is spoken of, as if it was by the indulgence of one class of people, that another enjoyed the exercise of their inherent natural rights. For happily the Government of the United States, which gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance requires only that they who live under its protection should demean themselves as good citizens, in giving it on all occasions their effectual support.

It would be inconsistent with the frankness of my character not to avow that I am pleased with your favorable opinion of my Administration, and fervent wishes for my felicity. May the children of the Stock of Abraham, who dwell in this land, continue to merit and enjoy the good will of the other Inhabitants; while every one shall sit in safety under his own vine and figtree, and there shall be none to make him afraid. May the father of all mercies scatter light and not darkness in our paths, and make us all in our several vocations useful here, and in his own due time and way everlastingly happy.

G. Washington

93 posted on 12/01/2005 1:56:46 PM PST by SJackson (People have learned from Gaza that resistance succeeds, not smart negotiators., Hassem Darwish)
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To: msnimje

As long as the Bush twins are part of the Bushwanza celebration, I'm on board!


94 posted on 12/01/2005 2:00:29 PM PST by pissant
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To: Clemenza

Being in Seattle, a gay yuletide will be easy for you!


95 posted on 12/01/2005 2:04:14 PM PST by pissant
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To: whispering out loud

And Santa means saint? Hmmm.


96 posted on 12/01/2005 2:04:44 PM PST by pissant
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To: CharlesWayneCT

True enough. But when you are shopping and having presents wrapped at the local retailer, they will get a Merry Christmas in response to the inane happy holidays.


97 posted on 12/01/2005 2:06:32 PM PST by pissant
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To: Ostlandr

Well said!


98 posted on 12/01/2005 2:06:59 PM PST by pissant
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To: MikeHu

I hope you are right. Not sure if we've completely turned the corner, but we are getting closer with each false hysteria story.


99 posted on 12/01/2005 2:10:42 PM PST by pissant
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To: ViLaLuz

It has everything to do with trying to take Christ out of the holiday. And America will not stand for it.


100 posted on 12/01/2005 2:12:18 PM PST by pissant
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