I know I will get flamed for saying it but I much more enjoy the company of black men and women who act like me.
Me when I'm behaving....not when I'm acting like the Credit Card commercial Visigoth.
But hiw can one say what I just said without sounding arrogant?
my wife and I comment frequently when we meet someone black and have instant rapport....as opposed to walking into a government building and getting the old black lady Alfie Woodard staredown...which no amount of chatting up will help....you know the main reason is communication rapport and commonality