Actually it was a frozen 30lb. yellowfin tuna! My husband was bringing it to his friend who owned the restaurant when he ran into the stupid guy at the bar. I was proud of him because his 16 year old son was with him and it showed his son what a real man does when someone insults his girlfriend (at the time) and makes anti-semetic remarks.
Okay, I understand now.
Good thing, because the mystery was going to nag at me for the rest of my life otherwise.