I never said you were an idiot nor would I for having children.
Sorry. Should have read further before positing!
Perhaps I read "idiot" into the suggestion that we had our children for the tax benefit, because I certainly think that would be stupid, if not abusive. Don't know where you came up with that ... perhaps you have me confused with my soul-sister, TaxRelief, and her TaxDeductions? (Those handles are a joke, by the way ...)
My username comes from my former occupation.