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God, Religion ... Whatever -- Are Our Churchgoing Youth Falling Away from the Faith?
Agape Press ^ | 1/13/06 | Ed Vitagliano

Posted on 01/15/2006 5:15:05 PM PST by dukeman

No Christian parent wants to hear the words "apostasy" and "my child" uttered in the same sentence, for the very thought that our children may be falling away from Christianity is -- or should be -- terrifying.

But with the stakes so high, Christian parents and church leaders must be willing to ask difficult questions. What is it that young people, who have been raised in church and self-identify as Christians, actually believe? Is it connected at all with the historic Christian faith?

Some individuals who work in the social sciences have begun asking such questions. For example, Christian Smith and Melinda Lundquist Denton, sociologists at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, began with data gleaned from the largest and most detailed study of teenagers and religion ever undertaken, the National Study of Youth and Religion (NSYR). Smith and Denton added the results of follow-up, face-to-face interviews with more than 250 of the youth who participated in the NSYR study. The authors then distilled the results in their riveting book, Soul Searching: The Religious and Spiritual Lives of American Teenagers.

What Soul Searching reveals is a generation of kids who claim to be Christian, but many of whose beliefs are not even remotely orthodox. Smith and Denton said, "Rather more subtly, Christianity is either degenerating into a pathetic version of itself or, more significantly, Christianity is actively being colonized and displaced by a quite different religious faith."

In Real Teens: A Contemporary Snapshot of Youth Culture, pollster and researcher George Barna, whose Barna Research Group follows religious and spiritual trends in America, summed up that "different religious faith" in a single word: "Whatever." That word, which is nothing more than a verbal shrug of the shoulders at the thought of absolute truth, "has become the mantra of the emerging generation."

What is ironic about this is that the majority of teens in the U.S. actually hold a very positive view of religion, and churchgoing youth consistently answered surveys like Barna's and the NSYR by stating that God and religion were very important in their lives.

According to Soul Searching, in interviews many teens "said things like, 'Oh, [religion is] really important, yeah,' 'It's the center of how I live my life,' and 'Faith influences many of my decisions.'"

But what did they mean when they made such statements?

Moralism Run Amok

In trying to characterize what churchgoing kids actually believe, Smith and Denton coined the phrase "Moralistic Therapeutic Deism." Each word presents a core facet of what is becoming the dominant religious view among the nation's youth.

First, they explained, the religious beliefs of many teens are moralistic because they see faith as being essentially related to mere human goodness. In other words, kids believe "that central to living a good and happy life is being a good, moral person. That means being nice, kind, pleasant, respectful, responsible, at work on self-improvement, taking care of one's health, and doing one's best to be successful."

And that's where religion fits in. "Most U.S. teens think that one of religion's primary functions is to help people be good," said Soul Searching.

Orthodox Christian doctrine teaches that goodness is neither an inherent human trait nor, even if it were, is it sufficient for a saving relationship with God.

But that's just the problem. Many religious teens do not hold to an orthodox Christian belief concerning goodness and salvation. Barna noted from his research: "Amazingly, even though they have personally prayed to accept Jesus Christ as their Savior, half of all born-again teenagers believe that a person can earn his or her way into heaven."

Smith and Denton said, "Viewed in terms of the absolute historical centrality of the Protestant conviction about salvation by God's grace alone, through faith alone and not by any human good works, many believe professions by Protestant teens, including numerous conservative Protestant teens, in effect discard that essential Protestant gospel."

If religion is important only to help people live good lives, might it not also be true that the definition of a "good" life would differ from individual to individual?

In fact, that is what the majority of youth believe. "In this context ... the very idea of religious truth is attenuated," Soul Searching said, "shifted from older realist and universalist notions of convictions about objective Truth to more personalized and relative versions of 'truth for me' and 'truth for you.'"

This rigidly individualistic view of religion "is not a contested orthodoxy for teenagers," the book said. "It is an invisible and pervasive doxa, that is, an unrecognized, unquestioned, invisible premise or presupposition."

Having completely digested the doctrine of inclusivity and diversity, it is no surprise that typical responses in the Smith and Denton interviews were statements like, "Who am I to judge?," "If that's what they choose, whatever," "Each person decides for himself," and "If it works for them, fine."

With a view of religion that is so intertwined with individualism and which rejects any transcendent truth, it is also not surprising that the majority of teenagers reject the very idea that religion is necessary at all.

Most American teenagers "do not view religion as necessary for anyone being good because they see many means to being good and many good non-religious people. Hence, most U.S. teenagers conclude that religion is a non-necessary condition for achieving one of [religion's] primary functions. In other words, the thing religion specializes in does not actually require religion to achieve. Consequently, many U.S. teenagers construct religion in non-essential terms, as an optional individual lifestyle choice that does indeed help many people but is certainly not itself ultimately necessary."

'Religion Helps Me Feel Happy'

The second facet of Smith and Denton's portrait of dominant religion in America is that it is therapeutic. That is, faith is meant to make a person happy, and help him get through life -- much as a therapist does.

This means that concepts like repentance from sin, praying for God's mercy and grace, or faithfully "living as a servant of a sovereign divine" are absent from the religious lives of many teens, and even many so-called Christian teens.

"Rather, what appears to be the actual dominant religion among U.S. teenagers is centrally about feeling good, happy, secure, at peace. It is about attaining subjective well-being, being able to resolve problems, and getting along amiably with other people."

In their interviews, the researchers logged the number of teens who mentioned certain key phrases. When it came to what the researchers called the "historically central religious and theological ideas," few teens uttered them, if at all. For example, only 47 mentioned "personally sinning or being a sinner," and the numbers trailed off dramatically after that. Next on the list: Only 13 mentioned "obeying God or the church." Concepts such as "the kingdom of God" or "the grace of God" were even less frequently mentioned – by only five teens and three teens, respectively.

On the other hand, 112 teens spoke about "personally feeling, being, getting, or being made happy" because of religion. And that was simply the number of teens who mentioned such words in connection to religion. Teens used the specific phrase "feel happy" more than 2,000 times!

Smith and Denton said: "What our interviews almost never uncovered among teens was a view that religion summons people to embrace an obedience to truth regardless of the personal consequences or rewards."

'Heaven and Stuff'

The final characteristic of the prevailing religious view among American teens was deism. It is "about belief in a particular kind of God: one who exists, created the world, and defines our general moral order, but not one who is particularly personally involved in one's affairs -- especially affairs in which one would prefer not to have God involved. Most of the time, the God of this faith keeps a safe distance. He is often described by teens as 'watching over everything from above.'"

In fact, most teenagers' beliefs about God and their own religious faith were so vague as to be almost incomprehensible. Smith and Denton found "the vast majority of [teens] to be incredibly inarticulate about their faith, their religious beliefs and practices, and its meaning or place in their lives." The vast majority of these churchgoing youth, they said, "simply could not express themselves on matters of God, faith, religion, or spiritual life."

Consider the response in one interview, when a 17-year-old Presbyterian boy was asked to describe his Christian beliefs: "Um [pause], I don't know, I just, uh, just like anybody else I guess. There's nothing really to say, I don't know, just the Presbyterian beliefs. Just like I believe in all the sin and stuff and going to heaven and stuff, life after life."

Or this 13-year-old Catholic girl: "I'm not sure, not sure, I can't remember what I believe. Oh, mm-mm, yeah, like Jesus and God and them guys. That he is alive and watching over us."

Smith and Denton reminded the readers of Soul Searching that "these were not throw-away comments of teens, these were their main answers to our key questions about their basic personal religious beliefs."

Some parents might be tempted to think, "Well, my teenager can't articulate much of anything at his age." But Soul Searching insisted that the problem was not related to their age. "Many of the youth we interviewed were quite conversant when it came to their views on salient issues in their lives about which they had been educated and had practice discussing, such as the dangers of drug abuse and [sexually transmitted diseases]."

And these kids were not stupid, as if knowing details of their own faith was somehow beyond their intellectual capacity. "In the end, many teenagers know abundant details about the lives of favorite musicians and television stars or about what it takes to get into a good college, but most are not very clear on who Moses and Jesus were," the researchers noted in Soul Searching.

A Parasitic Faith

Smith and Denton are careful not to overstate their case about Moralistic Therapeutic Deism by implying that it is in any sense an official religion competing with Christianity, and thus successfully proselytizing America's teenagers. Instead, their description is of a phenomenon that is more insidious, and they sounded more like science fiction writers than social scientists.

Moralistic Therapeutic Deism "is simply colonizing many established religious traditions and congregations in the United States," and "becoming the new spirit living in the old body. Its typical embrace and practice is de facto, functional, practical, and tacit, not formal or acknowledged as a distinctive religion."

Thus it operates as "a parasitic faith. It cannot sustain its own integral, independent life; rather it must attach itself like an incubus to established historical religious traditions, feeding on their doctrines and sensibilities, and expanding by mutating their theological substance to resemble its own distinctive image."

This is why religious teenagers can remain happily within their original faith traditions, while believing in things diametrically opposed to the actual tenets of that religion.

This parasitic faith, Soul Searching said, has been alarmingly successful. Smith and Denton said they had come to believe "that a significant part of Christianity in the United States is actually only tenuously Christian in any sense that is seriously connected to the actual historical Christian tradition, but has rather substantially morphed into Christianity's misbegotten step-cousin, Christian Moralistic Therapeutic Deism."

If this is the diagnosis of the disease, what is the treatment? Soul Searching seemed clear in its assessment that the church -- and Christian parents -- have failed in the task of educating youth about the core beliefs of Christianity.

In what was perhaps the saddest comment in the entire 300-pages plus of Soul Searching, the researchers said: "Indeed, it was our distinct sense that for many of the teens we interviewed, our interview was the first time that any adult had ever asked them what they believed and how it mattered in their life" (emphasis in original).

If true, that statement represents a situation which is a travesty. And rather than worrying about whether or not apostasy may come to America in the future, perhaps we should mourn the fact that it is already here.


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To: Larry Lucido
I am not referring to "mega churches".

I am referring to typical churches that simply don't preach what they should for fear they may "offend" someone or have their own gospel to preach that is not in agreement with what the Bible states. I should clarify their "own" gospel a bit more - similar to Jimmeh Carter's secular humanism in lieu of Biblical teachings.

I ignored the rest of your reply.

Truly you really need to read some of the stats on "Christians". It's pitiful.
41 posted on 01/15/2006 7:51:41 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people believe in Intelligent Design (God))
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To: nmh
I ignored the rest of your reply.

Oh, that's brilliant. Guess you're just here to hear yourself talk, then. Thanks for the heads up.

42 posted on 01/15/2006 7:56:01 PM PST by Larry Lucido
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To: naturalized

> Must make you happy not to have to worry about being afraid of your god.

No more so than it makes me "happy" to "not have to" be afraid of Tiamat, Dracula or the Loch Ness Monster. Now, a Hillary Presidency... that's shudder-inspiring.


43 posted on 01/15/2006 9:15:15 PM PST by orionblamblam (A furore Normannorum libra nos, Domine)
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To: AppyPappy

God bless your efforts!


44 posted on 01/16/2006 1:18:50 AM PST by wouldntbprudent
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To: dukeman
The pocket jesus for Ethical Living and Psychic Well-Being is an idol of the worst kind.

Some parents might be tempted to think, "Well, my teenager can't articulate much of anything at his age." But Soul Searching insisted that the problem was not related to their age. "Many of the youth we interviewed were quite conversant when it came to their views on salient issues in their lives about which they had been educated and had practice discussing, such as the dangers of drug abuse and [sexually transmitted diseases]."

I was pretty dense about religion in my teens, too, and was going to say so until the writers anticipated my optimism. Dang, they're right. I knew far more about computers, Star Wars and Star Trek than about the Bible or Christian theology and history.

45 posted on 01/16/2006 1:43:43 AM PST by Dumb_Ox (http://kevinjjones.blogspot.com)
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To: Dumb_Ox
I think the message from these survey results [caveat: the researchers are from the University of North Carolina, a renowned lib hotbed] is that Bible-believing Christian parents should relate to their children on the deepest level about what it means to need a savior, who God is, and who Jesus is and what He did for us. This is real work and we cannot shirk from it. It is just too important.
46 posted on 01/16/2006 6:00:26 AM PST by dukeman
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To: dukeman

It is the Law of God that is a (tutor) to lead people to a true relationship with Christ.
The Law was meant to reveal to us how sinful we are in the eyes of God.
The Holy Spirit convicts our conscience using the Law.
The result should be a "humble heart".
God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.
Becoming a Christian can only happen when one humbles themselves before God in light of repentance, and then receives the sacrafice Christ provided.
The youth need to be shown that they are breaking the commandments of God like the rest of us.
The Body of Christ today is guilty of preaching a watered down gospel. We do not need a Savior because "He can fill a void in your heart", or "because you'll find true happiness and joy", or "rich blessings will abound".
Take a teen to the Ten Commandments, show them how they have broken most of them, let them know that on judgement day they will stand before the Almighty Judge and will be found guilty of breaking the Law, let them know the penalty is "liers, thieves, blasphemers, those who have looked upon a "man or a woman" with lust has already committed adultry in their heart, those that have hated have committed murder in their heart, will be thrown in the Lake of Fire.
Let the Law humble first. Then bring the good news of Christ to them.


47 posted on 01/16/2006 6:02:53 AM PST by uptoolate
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To: nmh

Yep, Lyres and flutes only or it ain't God?


48 posted on 01/16/2006 6:20:37 AM PST by showme_the_Glory (No more rhyming, and I mean it! ..Anybody got a peanut.....)
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To: uptoolate

Well said. I've seen it expressed this way as well: The Gospel is a fine, silken thread. But it cannot penetrate the human heart unless tied to the needle of the Law. The Law makes the path into the heart and pulls the Gospel in after it.


49 posted on 01/16/2006 6:38:55 AM PST by dukeman
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To: showme_the_Glory
"Yep, Lyres and flutes only or it ain't God?"

I don't know where to start with you ... you totally miss the point. You appear to have a reading and comprehension problem.
50 posted on 01/16/2006 8:36:41 AM PST by nmh (Intelligent people believe in Intelligent Design (God))
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To: dukeman

> The Gospel is a fine, silken thread. But it cannot penetrate the human heart unless tied to the needle of the Law.

Yikes. Thanks all the same, but just now I'm not up for having my heart pierced by needles, threads, bullets, daggers or any other such thing.

Creepy.


51 posted on 01/16/2006 11:09:38 AM PST by orionblamblam (A furore Normannorum libra nos, Domine)
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To: orionblamblam

Your choice.


52 posted on 01/16/2006 11:34:29 AM PST by dukeman
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To: gwhiz; tutstar; caryatid; TexGuy; CindyDawg; 2Jedismom; JamesP81; Sybeck1; pamlet; aumrl; HeadOn; ..

Tut must be sleeping on the job.
Baptist Ping


53 posted on 01/16/2006 11:45:21 AM PST by WKB (If you can't dazzle them with brilliance.. then Baffle them with BS)
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To: dukeman

I find this article odd in many ways. I can't put much weight in the conclusion because some of the premises are really off. But that just adds emphasis to the sorry state of the church (generally speaking) today. We don't even share basic definitions in common any more.


54 posted on 01/16/2006 12:38:24 PM PST by The Ghost of FReepers Past (Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light..... Isaiah 5:20)
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To: dukeman

Cameron and Comfort - "Way of the Master" I presume?


55 posted on 01/16/2006 5:31:47 PM PST by uptoolate
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To: lexington minuteman 1775
How can you win when those you are are trying to reach say "whatever"! We truly need to retrench, refocus, and figgure out how to reach these young folks before its too late!

If your kids are in public school, it's already too late. OTOH -- 94% of home-educated adults say they believe as their parents do.

56 posted on 01/16/2006 6:13:22 PM PST by TomSmedley (Calvinist, optimist, home schooling dad, exuberant husband, technical writer)
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To: orionblamblam
Psalm 137:9 "Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones."

That was the way God dealt with pagan peoples who rejected him.

57 posted on 01/16/2006 7:21:52 PM PST by Full Court (Keepers at home, do you think it's optional?)
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To: goodnesswins; nmh; showme_the_Glory; RobRoy; Terriergal; pby; lupie; shaggy eel; My2Cents; ...
our preacher quotes C.S. Lewis regularly

Sounds like it's time to look for a new church!!

By the time of his death, Lewis had moved from Idealism (no idea of a personal God) to Pantheism (an impersonal God in everything) and then to Theism (the existence of God).

In Letters to Malcolm (p. 107), Lewis indicates that shortly before his death he was turning toward the Catholic Church. Lewis termed himself "very Catholic" -- his prayers for the dead, belief in purgatory, and rejection of the literal resurrection of the body are serious deviations from Biblical Christianity (C.S. Lewis: A Biography, p. 234); he even went to a priest for regular confession (p. 198), and received the sacrament of extreme unction on 7/16/63 (p. 301).

His contention that some pagans may "belong to Christ without knowing it" is a destructive heresy (Mere Christianity, pp. 176-177), as was his statement that "Christ fulfils both Paganism and Judaism ..." (Reflections on the Psalms, p. 129).

Lewis believed that we're to become "gods," an apparent affirmation of theistic evolution. He also believed the Book of Job is "unhistorical" (Reflections on the Psalms, pp. 110), and that the Bible contained "error" (pp. 110, 112) and is not divinely inspired (The Inklings, p. 175).

Lewis used profanities, told bawdy stories, and frequently got drunk with his students (5/19/90, World magazine).

Christians need to read more critically The Abolition of Man, The Problem of Pain, Miracles, The Great Divorce, and God in the Dock.

For example, Lewis never believed in a literal hell, but instead believed hell is a state of mind one chooses to possess and become -- he wrote, "... every shutting-up of the creature within the dungeon of its own mind is, in the end, Hell" (The Great Divorce, p. 65). http://www.rapidnet.com/~jbeard/bdm/exposes/lewis/general.htm

C.S. Lewis, heretic.

58 posted on 01/16/2006 7:32:25 PM PST by Full Court (Keepers at home, do you think it's optional?)
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To: Full Court

He quotes C. S. Lewis when it supports his (very conservative, Bible based, sermons......He doesn't PREACH from Lewis beliefs......sheesh.


59 posted on 01/16/2006 7:46:01 PM PST by goodnesswins (Here in the Seattle area.....It's time to build Arks.)
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To: goodnesswins

Just letting you and anyone else interested know that Lewis was an apostate heretic.


60 posted on 01/16/2006 7:50:35 PM PST by Full Court (Keepers at home, do you think it's optional?)
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